burden
Burden is the invisible weight imposed by the twin gears of others' expectations and ruthless reality. It contains the paradox that the more it is praised as a virtue, the greater the degree of sacrifice. While everyone wishes to avoid it, society's tightrope walk relies on people sharing each other's burdens. Yet, at its end lies a chain of exhaustion and self-loathing rather than gratitude. No poison is more unsettling than the burden that promises the greatest security.