sympathy
Sympathy is the art of savoring another’s misfortune as a dessert of self-indulgence. Others’ tears become the lubricant for one’s own conscience, consumed as proof of virtue. The most noble display of empathy vanishes the moment the conversation shifts. It serves more often as a checkbox to appease one’s guilt than as real assistance. In the end, the victim’s wounds remain while the sympathizer departs with a proud smile.